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What SHE should wear? Is NOT your job πŸš«πŸ˜

Disclaimer- The content below might be sensitive and raging. It has not been written to blame, condemn or to make fun of any celebrity or any perspective,belief or fashion. Readers are kindly allowed not to subjugate it to a serious issue. 

She was wearing a spaghetti inside her blue-white striped top. It was not merely for fashion rather it was to cover the linings of her seam bra. It was not merely her choice but her scared mother asked her to wear that. Figuring out that why I termed her as scared? Then it is just because of the society.
S.O.C.I.E.T.Y?  Wonderstrucked huh? Well not only in India but also in some fragmented parts of the world like if I name a few UAE, Asian countries and in some undiscovered parts of the world , women’s clothing has always been something to debate about.

Today, here, am not talking about the whole attire of a woman but That part of her body which is always looked upon. 
Which is β€” HER BREASTS 😷

Somewhere, there is that part of the society which thinks wearing bra is mandatory(though i don’t refuse to it) πŸ˜›, it will look so filthy if the shape of her bra shines out from the top(and for this, world introduced to seamless bra), if her nipples are visible then it looks shameful, perhaps. However,girls infact enter into that conscious world since ,they have been taught to hide it over or cover it.😳 

Cara Delevingne– *One of a kind* 🌟supermodel and actress who as well promotes the women’s justice and equality in being free and wear ‘what you want’. Having watched her, many girls got the confidence and stopped fearing about the society’s perception about their body. {High Five , Cara πŸ™Œ} 

Isn’t it? (Ask yourself)😏

When I was a child, i never cared that how the world looks at me.😡 But, the puberty prompted me wrong. I started entering into the more conscious world which was of PUBERTY. Where,a girl is only termed as “Modest girl” only if her clothes and attire are according to the society i.e., M.o.d.e.st.

When my mother newly introduced me to the bra , I fidgeted. (I still don’t know why). It gave me a womanhood feeling. I thought my carefree phase was over, which was yeah, indeed(sort of).Many people suggested me to take special care through the puberty period. I even learnt how pickles can make your breasts grow fast(I mocked at it when I heard about it first😜).I heard everything really worth mocking at.πŸ˜‘πŸ˜΅ 


Boys( According to some people–Myself being a femella-booster,its so biased to talk about them)But why should not I ? Give me one great reason. It is us. It is we. It is the society which made us learn to differentiate between these two sex,huh?β™» 
They have proper authority to show their underwear labels like as if it is ruling in the mass. As if?  β“❓❓

Throw a glance at your teen sensationπŸ‘€

He is much more confident. Cause this is his fashion. If there vest or underwear peaks out then society says , “Big Deal, they are B.O.Y.S.” and following this, a question hips up. WHO WE ARE THEN? Ain’t “G.I.R.L.S” ?  Why it is not valid for us?

Feel this prestige girls. πŸ™Œ 

 Society,society,society. Stop haunting girls out and start equalising them. Not  only ofcourse in mere terms of employemt field, education field, voting rights but also in this “WHAT-TO-WEAR & WHAT-NOT-TO-WEAR?” field. Give them liberty atleast not for their sake but for god’s sake(Do not forget that goddess still rule the world). πŸ‘ΈπŸ™

A very indulging message for the readers as well: 😊😼

Stop judging girls. If in your terms or if in your ideology, girls are ‘victims’ , then condemn it right away. We girls wear bra,panty and spaghetti underneath our clothes. So what? Boys also wear vest and underwear. But if you don’t look at them (guys) through your horror eyes then hey? Why at G.I.R.L.S? Girls do not even deserve to be under your eye. If you have given a boy valid authority to wear a vest and roam around. πŸ‘‰Even, shirtless? Then why not a girl? Why can’t a girl walk in pride in bra or half-clad? Stop fearing her through your judgemental and biased eyes. She is a human. Stop the difference. Start indulgence in this initiative. P.S- Ever thought why there was no gender inequality in ‘early human beings’ time? Cause that era says it allβ€”Early ‘Human Beings’ . Right away in that period, no one used to differ between the two sex cause they were h.u.m.a.n  b.e.i.n.g.s. Thats where the prosperity lies. No one used to pick you on clothes(ultimate fact still remains the same-they dont had clothes, but still they invented it out of flesh) Thats where again the prosperity lies.πŸ˜‡

Let the girls flaunt their way, style , thinking, fashion, body for it is thier LEAGUE . Let the spice flow in their views. πŸ˜πŸ’…

Happily awaiting to listen about your views, your story, your protest cause world needs your part. 😊✌

Keep loving,sharing,supporting and enjoying my blog.Diverse views shall be accepted but I will never forget to reply them back. Awaiting for those raging comments.πŸ”₯Stay strong. Stay bold.πŸ’₯

And of course, Ty Ty I love my fans.πŸ˜ŽπŸ™Œ Till then, blaho. πŸ‘»

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83 thoughts on “What SHE should wear? Is NOT your job πŸš«πŸ˜

  1. this is such a bold post that I have seen in some time now… I guess it is time for a lot of us shake the people around… I just loved the way you presented the perspective here… keep going my Dear… thanks for sharing

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  2. I hate body shaming and staring that goes around every time I step out of the house. I hate it when there is a ‘stare her down’ competition between people on the streets. I’ll wear what I want to, why can’t they mind their own business?

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  3. Awesome post. Powerful words. I couldn’t agree more. I was discussing this recently when I was wearing a strappy top vest and my friend noticed there were no bra straps lurking underneath. I told her I haven’t worn one in 3 months and don’t feel the need to. She asked me what I would do if I got cold but I said boys have that situation all the time and it isn’t seen as inappropriate or revealing so why should it be different for us, we all have nipples, the world needs to get over it. Excellent message! x

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  4. Not a love of people openly speak up about their views on feminism, equal genders, body shaming, and sexism. I love that you completely shocked me, in a way. I didn’t expect it to be so open and honest, bold and blunt. It’s fantastic. It’s exactly what people need to hear. Love it! πŸ™‚

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  5. Yesssss this is amazing! I agree 100% !!!!! Do you mind if I reblog this? This needs to be shared with the whole entire world, seriously! ❀️❀️❀️

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  6. That’s really bold post you’ve strong points to prove your statements. I think girls must wear what they want. But I’ll add that we must wear according to situation and also care about we should wear weird outfits.. πŸ™‚ thank you for sharing

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    1. Of course. Wearing according to the surroundings, is not a shot gun. But here, am actually emphasising on the fact that it is HER LIFE,HER CHOICES,HER STYLE,HER BODY. If really someone wanna wear weird outfits and they are comfortable enough to wear it. Then society should get hacked.πŸ˜‹πŸ˜Ž

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      1. Who is caring about people! ! We can’t make anyone happy… I agree with your points.
        I was just adding my thoughts in previous comment πŸ™‚

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  7. Modesty rules have been enforced on women/girls way more than men/boys. I kind of think its a double standard. Women should have the freedom to be who they are physically as well as emotionally. It’s a matter of the shaming thing we have seen throughout time.

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  8. if you read my post is love a sin you will see there is injustice too if a boy loves it is said its okay he is a boy but if a girl loves someone she is called a prostitute and what ever you said here is quite true if a girl raped she is blamed for her clothing it is said it is her fault quite a nice post keep up the good work

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  9. This is brilliantly written. But don’t you think that some people are throwing feminism out of context? Like, feminism should be equality between the male and female gender. Nothing more to it.
    Things are taken out of proportion sometimes.
    Anyway. Brilliant post. Keep writing. Following you now. Take care. πŸ™‚

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  10. Yes! God there’s so much to say on this! Being such a passionate person, these subjects really boil my blood but suffice it to say this was a damn good article! I like defying society in small ways, sometimes wearing a skirt to class (I know it’s no biggie but that is apparently against the rules they just made for us) and I go out without a bra most of the times if I’m wearing something loose and am comfortable cause I always have a ‘fuck it’ sorta attitude and I like what I like deal with it. And I do believe we need more of this!

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